When I was in seminary (Jan. 1999 to Dec. 2000) I decided to let my hair grow out. I had always wanted to have long hair, long enough to put in a pony tail. Don't ask me why. I just did.

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So after trying out the earthy hippy look (I even worked in a backpacking shop), I grew tired of the long locks (or reality set in) and I chopped off the do.

This was when I first realized how bad some people were at giving compliments. Matter of fact, what they gave did not qualify (IMHO) as a compliment.

Check the difference:

COMPLIMENT #1: "Wow! Your hair looks SOOOOOO much better!!!!"

COMPLIMENT #2: "Wow! Your hair looks great!!!"

See the subtle difference?

The first attempt at flattery included a backhanded insult whereas the latter was just flattery.

So if any of those people who blew their chance at a qualified compliment back then, here's another opportunity.